Archive for Archive for July, 2010

• The Coaching Partnership

The Coaching Partnership
The coaching relationship is a partnership between two equals. My relationship with my protégé’s is based upon the belief that they are smart, mature, and capable people who want support in articulating and achieving their goals. It seems to me that I provide support in at least four basic ways.

Posted by: kidhelper on Monday, July 19th, 2010

• Leaders: Self Correcting

Leaders: Self Correcting
After watching numerous hours of professional tennis, I have observed how the pros seem to be able to “adjust their game,” as their game develops. It is like they find “another gear” to raise the level of their performance. The opponent tries to a find a weakness to exploit. The defender raises their [...]

Posted by: kidhelper on Monday, July 12th, 2010

• Role of Lingering

The Role of Lingering
One of the ways to get return engagements is to “linger” after you finish your performance. Lingering is not “loitering” or wasting time, as in being lazy. It is rather, deliberately waiting, not rushing away.  It is involves making “yourself available” for something. For me, it is tarrying for some opportunity [...]

Posted by: kidhelper on Monday, July 5th, 2010